Couple’s Corner again my dear friends, and this week, our topic is about being best friends with our husbands. Can you call your hubbies your best friends? I can, I tell my hubby about everything. He knows me better than I know myself.
I guess that when we chose to marry our partners, we consider them as our friends and husbands. They are someone that we share our lives with. When we are with them, we can be ourselves, we can be looking untidy and yet, they still love us. We don’t have to act differently, we don’t need to hide our feelings.
When I married my husband, I knew that he can be a friend to me, that I can share with him my innermost feeling. He knows when I am feeling down, he knows every mood I am in. Before I married him, I only knew very little about his past, I guess, because our relationship moved so fast and quick, before we know it, we’re together. But, as we lived our lives together, we managed to share our feelings and we became transparent to one another. We became closer than ever and we share our feelings and dreams. He can talk to me about his past and so can I. We tell each other what we don’t like and what we prefer. I share with him about everything. I don’t hide anything, because there is nothing to hide, aside from sometimes, I spend more than I am supposed to (shopping wise).
Marrying and loving our husbands and being their best friend is the greatest thing that can ever happen to us. Can you imagine if you are not open with your hubby and he’s not talking to you about anything? Frustrating, isn’t it? I believe it would be devastating to not be able to reach out to him. I love talking to my husband, sharing my feelings, complaints, whines, and my aggravation and frustration. And I can do this because he is my best friend.
What about you? Is your hubby your best friend? Share with us your story and ideas, we would love to hear from you..
of courseness!!! sino pa ba magttayaga sakin ng walang mantis kundi ang asawa kong pagkabait bait dba? wahaha!!! no choice sya eh… and because he’s the one who’s always there each and everyday for me, the only person I constantly speak to without reservation, eh sya na nga! hahaha!!! sana ako din eh bestfriend nya…
tumpak ka dyan Mommy AC, mga hubbies natin are the best friends that we can ever have, if we are lucky..
Tsalamat for putting up my link amiga mia hehehe.. OO nga di ko maimagine kung di ka open sa asawa mo, parang nakakasakal ano hehehe.. Buti na lang bestfriends tayo sa mga asawa natin hehehe..
Yes Mommy Rose, we are so blessed na mabbait ang ating mga hubbies, at tayo eh open sa kanila, ang sarap ng feelings kapag walang itinatago di ba? yung we can tell them everything.
Maaga ako ngaun ngbloghop ate liz,mmya na ko work heheeh blog muna hehehhehe. We are indeed lucky ate to have that kind of relationship with our husband, I have seen a lot of couple who keeps something from their partner and sadly its taking toll on their relationship.
Happy wednedays ate liz…
By the way the topic nxt week paano ko ba eexplain? hehehheh not close to my MIL at di ko din fave ang madear ko hehehhehe. but anyway I will still pay tribute to them
you don’t have to be close to your mother or mother in law to introduce them to the world of blogging. It just happens na Mother’s Day kaya ito ang napili kong topic. Ipakilala mo lang, la naman problema di ba?
ay uu nga marce, paano ba sa may topic?? waaaaah
mother lang aketch, hindi mother hehe
naku ako din lahat nasasabi ko kay cata e pati ata bilang ng buhok ko sa… ulo eh alam nya LOL
Marce- basta ipakilala mo lang ang mother mo at ang iyong mother in law. no big deal if wala kang ma ishare na magandang memories, hehehehe!
Wala yatang di alam ang asawa ko sa akin eh–kahit siguro timing sa pag-utot eh alam nya lol!Our husband is our bestfriend because they’re the one whos the closest to our heart^_^
wow! pati pag utot talaga ha. that’s so funny naman, kakatuwa ka, hehehehe!
so true, liz. ang sarap kapag best friend mo asawa mo kase di mo kailangang magtago ng kahit na ano at di mo kailangang magpanggap. kami ni rhonnel kabisado namin pati amoy ng utot ehehe. i love couple’s corner talaga. in a way kase nakakapagshare tayo ng experiences at opinions sa ating mga co-bloggers at syempre meron din tayong napupulot.
di dapat nagpapangggap when it concerns your spouse dii ba? kasi next sa parents mo, siya na ang taong magmamahal sau ng tapat, and vice versa. that’s why your partner is your bestfriend. Ewan lang sa iba na parang di maka communicate sa kanilang mga hubbies.
Liz, pareho pa;a tayo ng ini ha hide sa ating mga hubbys eh..ako din i sometimes hide how much i spent kasi nahihiya ako eh…not because he’ll get mad at me
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ahahha! i know what you mean, di naman sila magagalit na ma over spent tayo, pero siyempre minsan daying i accept na ang dami nating napamili di ba?
Of course I can’t afford not to talk with my husband kahit nga nang gagalaiti na ako sa sama ng loob ko sa kanya eh I still have to talk to him. hehehehe mine is up na mommy liz
pano ka pa ba naman manggagalaite ke Terry eh kalayo layo na nga nong tao, inaaway mo pa? ahahahha!
finally, nakasali ulit ako..hehe
am back…
my hubby is also my best friend. at gusto ko ako lang din ang bestfriend nya..haha demanding diba?
nakarelate ako dun sa shopping wise, guilty din ako jan. pero minsan lng nman..hehehe
I agree!Sa mga asawa natin no hush hush & no hidings.Sino pa ba ang uunawa at palaging nandyan sa atin syem pre ang ating other half. ^_^
of course naman Marce, sila lang ang taong nakakaintindi sa lahat ng ating mga fuss and trantrums, at of course, magmamahal sa atin ng tapat. Iniwan nga natin mga parents natin dahil sa kanila di ba??
i miss being with everyweek entry of CC..but soon i can join again…
I can just leave a word here about my hubby… yes he is my best friend and i am his best friend too…
Have a good day mommy Liz..ingat
Whenever you have the time Jenny, I know you love joining here and brag about your hubby, but you are busy and I can understand that. Hope to see you again next time.
nagbabalik at makikiusyuso sa ibang kalahok hehehe, pwede na ba ang tagalog ko sa Binibining Pilipinas haraharhar.
aba, di porke’t nandito tayo sa US eh di na tayo magtagalog ha..Yeah, pwede ka na sa Binibining Pilinas contest. kaso di sila tumatawa ng harharhar, hehehe!
aw. you are right mare..
i grew up without a bestfriend mare, dunno kasi some might get jealous pag sinabi ko best ko si ganito so i call all of them closest friends
and when i married yobib un na! wla na kkontra sya tlga BFF ko for life eh kasi nmn kahit awayin ko sya at sabihan nya ko ng kahit anu at the end of the day ‘kmi pa rin’ at BFF ulit kmi lol hahahaha
love u mare!
Tama ka dyan Mare, minsan eh sa mga kaibigan mo, wala kang matawag na best friend, kasi magdaramdam ang iba. Kaya buti na lang kapag nag asawa na wala ng reklamo mga friends, kasi pwede mo ng sabihing hubby mo ang best friend mo, which is totoo naman, dahil mga hubbies natin ang kasama natin sa hirap at sa ginhawa di ba? if given an option, we will leave our very best friend for the sake of our hubbies.
Nice topic, Liz…
I feel so grateful, my husband is also my best friend
akala ko naligaw ako marce kase danda ng new layout mo. gawa ni marce kaye? galing2!
as usual, si kumare kikamz mo ay late ulit. hehe! kaya pagpasensyahan mo na.
tama ka when you said we should be our husband’s best friends. after all, we will be together until we die so might as well make the most out of it. lol!
yup, si Marce Kaye nga po ang nag make over nitong aking site. Hehehe, katuwa ka naman, we will be together until we die, might as well be their best friend..funny yun ah, but come to think of it, may point ka dun.
syempre si hubby ang bestfriend ko doon hehe.. speaking of utot, may napanood ako sa tv na ang stages of relationship ay mababase sa utot lol.. syempre pag ligawan stage muna, todo pigil ang utot.. pag mag bf-gf, medyo pa-cute pa at pa-simple umutot.. pag honeymoon stage, medyo magpapa-sorry pa na parang hindi sinasadya.. pag matagal na talaga, wala ng pakielaman, harapan kung umutot.. ganun din si hubby naku
wait lang ang aking post ha …
bakit parang ang daming topic ng utot dito, hahaha. oo yata, kapag matagal ng mag asawa, wala ng pigilan ng utot, nag co contest pa ng di ba? hahaha!
Ano ba meron sa utot? hehe. eh ganun dun papi ko eh. kainis minsan bagong gising ako at katabi ko pa sa kama, nagpapalabas na ng bomba. kainis. hehe
hehehe, isa pang utot ang topic neto. but know what Mare? sbi nila, kapag kaya mo ng umutot sa harap ng asawa mo, meaning nawala na ang inhibitions mo at comfortable ka na sa hubby mo. oh di ba?
Pareho po tayo..We’re so comfortable talking to each other about anything, including our past..He knows me so well that he even calls me a “horrible liar”..LOL!! Because I can never hide anything from him..He’d only have to look straight into my eyes and he can tell right then and there if I am telling the truth of not..That’s how much my hubby knows me
pareho tayo Mommy KC, my husband also knows when I am lying, kasi dahil kilala na nya ako, he knows when I am telling the truth or not. I am glad that you are your hubby’s best friend, wala ng gaganda pa sa marriage life natin kung ang ating mga hubbies ang ating dakilang kaibigan.